Monday, November 26, 2007

Calling All Bloggers!!: Thankful to see Another Day

Calling All Bloggers!!: Thankful to see Another Day

A New Generation

I just can't Stand my Generation! It's Terrible "REALLY IT IS!" It's just so sad. I honestly do not see no hope for us at ALL! And to think I have to live in this SH*TTY A$$ Generation. I am really fed up with it but I have to deal with it too. There are times I wish that I were born in another time and age not saying that they were any better but it's just how I feel.

This Generation Really SUCKS! being the young women that I am you would think that I could adapt to the ways things are, but in Reality I CAN'T STAND IT! Everything is too Worldly SEX, SEX, SEX, SEX is All you here about in today's society and a BIG popularity to my kind. Baby Mommas and Baby Daddies Gays, Lesbos, Bi, Downlow, Swingers, so forth and so on. If I just stepped on your toe then just say OUCH! I am just being honest!

I guess you could just say time is Changing look at all the Crazy A** S**T! that's going on. Just Look Around! In the Schools, on the streets, in your home, in different countries EVERYWHERE! Time is winding up and we need to get it together but unfortunately we don't seem to be getting the message. Back in the day things were bad, but now in the present things have gotten so much worst. There is just so much going on, everyday, twenty four hours and seven days a week, 365 day in a year.

Time is Flying by so FAST! This year has gotten away from us as we know it and 2008 is just around the corner. As my mom would call it "The signs of Time!" I don't know about you but I've seen just about ALL of them SERIOUSLY! We are living in a DANGEROUS WORLD, there is so much CRAZINESS out there. Shootings, Killings, Kidnappings, I could go on and on. It's a TOUGH world out there and we have to be cautious.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Imitation of Life (1959 version)

One of my All time favorite movies is, "Imitation of Life!" I just got finish watching this movie. Not only is this movie a classic, but there is a message in this move. There were actually Four messages. The movie starts off on the Beach where Lora played by Lana Turner and her daughter Susie were at. Susie and Sarah Jane were playing on the Beach. Lora was at a panic trying to find Susie thinking that she has lost her. When she has finally found Susie with the Aide of a Police Officer, there she was with Sarah Jane and Annie Johnson played by Juanita Moore.

During the time on the Beach Annie and Lora had some time to talk while the Girls played. Steve the photographer had taken a picture of Lora while she was searching for Susie, he had also taken a picture of a man asleep while Susie and Sarah playfully placed a can on his big fat belly. A lot has happened during the Beach scene but later on in the movie Annie and Sarah Jane wound up moving in with Lora and Susie. Lora's Dream was to become a Star she wanted to be in the movies and on stage however, she had to go through a lot to get to that point in her Life. She barely made quality time for her daughter because of her busy schedule of starring in various plays.

Annie Johnson
had to deal with her daughter who rejected her own race. Even though she could pass for White, she could not accept the fact that she was colored. So she posed and conducted herself as if she was white. Years have past Lora's acting career had become very successful, the Girls have grown up into women and Annie was still dealing with Sarah Jane trying to pass for White. Annie had fought this battle with for many years and from it her health slowly begin to fade. All Sarah cared about was not being discovered that she was Black. She felt that White people were treated better so she pretended to be White. It was Sad to know that she was ashamed of her own color, she even rejected her own mother.

While Lora was starring in movies and plays Susie felt rejected. Annie practically raised Sarah Jane and Susie.When Lora spends time with Susie it was on short terms, that is why she felt the way she was feeling all of these years. Susie needed her mother but she was hardly ever around. As a teenager she had fallen for Steve, the man that was in Love with her mother. To make a long story short, Lora was too busy chasing her dreams of becoming a star when her daughter really needed her and Sarah Jane practically worried her mom and her Health slowly begin to fade. Towards the end of the movie Annie dies. Her funeral was held and Sarah Jane shows up unexpectedly feeling that it was her fault that her mom had died.

Monday, October 1, 2007

Thankful to see Another Day

by: Belinda Richmond

I Am Thankful to See Another Day
God is in Control He will Make a Way
I Put my Trust in Him Everyday
When I am Troubled I start to Pray.

I Am Thankful to see Another Day
He Provides My needs in Every Way
I Pray that the Lord will show me Favor
His Blessings untold the ones to Savor.

I Am Thankful to see Another Day
He Will Order my Steps that why I’ll Say
Thank you Lord for the Blessings in Store
IF I Trust in you, You will send me More.

I Am Thankful to See Another Day
You Are my Sunshine, You Brighten my Day
You are the Wind that blows in the Trees
You are my Everything, you are what I Need.

You Were Always There

by: Belinda Richmond

Trapped in my Worries and Going Through,
My Life is Mapped out and you Already Knew,
I have a lot of problems but No One Seems to Care,
I Have No Need to Worry because You were Always There.

You Seen Me Laugh, You Seen Me Cry,
You seen me Go through it and you already know why.
You Never Left Me, You Always Cared
I Have No Need to Worry because You were Always There.

Don't Have to Worry, Don't Have to Fear
I Call on Your Name and Your so Near
You Only put More on Me that I can Bear
I Have No Need to Worry because You were Always There.

I Pray to My Lord Everyday
You Are My Light and you Showed Me the Way
You Are My Savior, You Always Cared
I Have No Need to Worry because You were Always There.

Don't Have No Regrets, Don't Have No Doubts
Put it All in His Hands and He will Work it Out
Cast All your Troubles in His Cares
I Have No Need to Worry because You were Always There.

Thursday, September 27, 2007

So Over You

by: Belinda Richmond

Our Time has ended we are Through
We Are No longer together I am so over You
Our Relationship has all gone Wrong
You got me here singing a Sad Love Song.

Our Time has ended We are Through
We Are No longer together I am so over You
Ever since I dismissed You I Can See
My burdens are lifted and I am Free as can Be.

Our Time has ended We are Through
We Are No longer together I am so over You
I am so over you I have shed my Tears
I have dealt with you Bull Crap for many of Years.

I have dealt with your Games and with you Lies
I am letting you Go and I am saying Goodbye
I have dealt with the sorrow and with the Pain
I Refuse to let you put me through that Again.

Our Time has ended We are Through
We Are No longer together I am so over You
My Life is Wonderful, I am No Longer Sad
I am so over you therefore I am Glad.

Step

by: Belinda Richmond

Go ahead and Leave just walk out of my Door
Get to Steppin and don’t come back No More
I have come to realization you are not what I Need
I have turned you a loose so you are now Free.

Get to Steppin, go ahead, just take a Hike
I know how you are and I know what you Like
You are still a little Boy and you want to go and Play
You were Planning to Leave me any Damn Way.

Get the Steppin, go ahead, just Hit the Road
You Think your All That and you Think your Bold
Your messing around with All of your Ho’s
I Already knew about them your Game is so Old.

Get to Steppin, just go and don’t Look Back
The stuff you own is already Packed
Get to Steppin, Get Lost and Leave your Key
I am turning you a loose and you can Be.

Get to Steppin, Farewell, just get out of my Face
You are No longer my Man and you have been Replaced
You want to sleep around and mess with your Girls
You act as if you are God’s gift to the World.

The Tie that Binds


by: Belinda Richmond


The Tie that Binds the Love we Share
The Felling of Hope, The Feeling you Care
The Love is Real, The Feeling is True
The Happiness that is Shared between Me and You.


The Tie that Binds our Relationship Together
We Are a Match Always and Forever
I Feel Really good When you are Near
I get this Warm Feeling When you are Here.


The Tie that Binds Your words Inspire
You are the One that I Desire
Our Love is Tangled, Our Relationship is Tight
The Tie That Binds us Makes it Alright.


The Tie that Binds us together like Strings
What wonderful Feelings that Love Can Bring
You Are the Man that I have been waiting For
Your Like a Dream Come True Who could ask for More

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Facing Reality

by: Belinda Richmond



Facing Reality is Really Tough
Times are Hard and things are Rough
Reality is something we have to Face
I am able to Stand with the Lords Grace.

Facing Reality in these times Today
You have to be Alert and Always Pray
The world is full of Sin
It won’t be long before it All Ends.

Facing Reality and the many Trials
This has been going on for quite a while
Things have Really gotten out of Hand
As a Human society we need to learn to Stand

Facing Reality, Trials and Test
It’s not Easy but God knows Best
Facing Hardships along with Depression
It might be tough but these are only Lessons.

Facing Reality and All that it Has
This will soon be over it will Not Last
There is Nothing New Under the Sun
He Knows your Trials and He is the One.

Grown Women!!

Grown WomenGirls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Girls yell at you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't. Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes out with her own friends Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just one man. Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

Friday, September 7, 2007

Day Two Evening Classes with H&R Block

Ok first off I was about 30 minutes late, I was told that the class started at 6:30 when it was really 6. Anyways we learned about the different types of Forms 1040EZ, 1040A, and the 1040. The shortest is the 1040EZ it has 13 lines. The Longest is the 1040 and 1040A is sort of in the middle. We also learned about the W-2 Form and it too also came in differnt forms. We did in class work pertaining to the 1040EZ, we filled out a Form and learned what each box, what each line was for and what input went to what line or what box should be checked. There is so much to learn but it is very interesting and informative. There is a lot of stuff to learn when becoming a tax professional. I am looking forward for the next several Chapters.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

First Day of Classes with H & R Block

It Started off very slow. I Guest that is what happens when classes start a Day after a Holiday, people are are still on vacation. but anyways I was the only student in attendance which is fine with me, I will be one step ahead of everyone. I have my workbooks and my materials so I am all set and ready to go.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

A New Plan in Life!

Well it's official! I had just recently enrolled into an H&R Block Tax Referral course and my classes start on 9/4/07 and I am so excited. Hopefully after the course I will be placed as a Professional Tax Referral in my area. As I would always say if Plan A doesn't work then try Plan B only in my case I also have plan C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K, so forth and so on. I've tried it ALL and now I'm taking another road and seeing how it works out. I have tried being a Mortgage Loan Officer but it was like Telemarketing and we all know that No One doesn't want to be bothered with a Telemarketer especially if they are not looking to Refinance, so they let me go of course. My field of studies is Computer Networking and they're not giving me a cut either so I have decided to step out of my comfort zone and try out some other fields where I am comfortable or until I can actually get my foot through a Door, meanwhile I will continue my journey and keep climbing to the top. Things happen for a reason and for all I know all these closed doors are only leading my to the right Door so I will definetly "Keep the Faith!" "I still have a Long Journey!"

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Rollercoaster

by: Belinda Richmond

My Life is Like a Rollercoaster
It Twirls around and around
It stays suspended up in the Air
As I am hanging upside Down.
My Love Life is Like a Rollercoaster
It Starts to Move Really Fast
But just at that moment it begins to slow down
I Knew this ride wouldn’t Last.
My Emotions is Like a Rollercoaster
Everything is Great from the Beginning
But just as things start to go Bad
My Happiness has come to its Ending.
Friendship is Like Riding a Rollercoaster
They come and then they Go
One Minute your cool and then your Not
Sometimes you Need to Let People Alone.
People are just Like a Rollercoaster
They will take you for a Ride
They will Flip you around and thrust you Forward
A True Friend will only Provide.

Single

by: Belinda Richmond

There is nothing wrong with being Single
It gives you the chance to go out and Mingle
Meet new People and make some Friends
Making Friends is where it begins.
Being Single is not that Bad
You’re full of energy, you are so Glad
Your Past Relationships have all gone wrong
But your over the pain and therefore your strong.
Being Single is Really Great
You meet a lot of guys and go on Dates
Even though Men will come and go
When the Right one comes along you will know.
Being Single can sometimes be a drag
You Reminisce on your past Relationships
and the Love you had
Free as a Dove I Flap my Wings
He has missed out on a Good Thing.

The End of the Line

by: Belinda Richmond


This is the End of the Line
I won’t Deal with your mess No More
Without you I am doing just Fine
Go Ahead and Walk out the Door.
I have had enough of your Mess
I Refuse to deal with your Pain
You have given me so much Heartache
I hope to never see you Again.
This is the End of the Line
I thought we were more than Friends
Unfortunately your seeing someone Else
Therefore the Relationship had End.
This is the End of the Line
I have cried my very last Cry
I Refuse to let you Stress me Out
Therefore I am Saying Goodbye.

Thursday, August 2, 2007

God Our Protector

Psalms 91

Whoever goes to the Lord for safety,
whoever remains under the protection of the Almighty,
can say to him,
"You are my defender and protector.
You are my God; in you I trust."
He will keep you safe from all hidden dangers
and from all deadly diseases.
He will cover you with his wings;
you will be safe in his care;
his faithfulness will protect and defend you.
You need not fear any dangers at night
or sudden attacks during the day
or the plagues that strikes in the dark
or the evils that kill in daylight.
A thousand may fall dead beside you,
ten thousand all around you,
but you will not be harmed.
You will look and see
how the wicked are punished.
You have made the Lord your defender,
the Most High your protector,
and so no disaster will strike you,
no violence will come near your home.
God will put his angels in charge of you
to protect you wherever you go.
They will hold you up with their hands
to keep you from hurting your feet on the stones.
You will trample down lions and snakes,
fierce lions and poisonous snakes.
God says, "I will save those who love me
and will protect those who acknowledge me as Lord.
When they call to me, I will answer them;
when they are in trouble, I will be with them.
I will rescue them and honor them.
I will reward them with long life;
I will save them."

Saturday, July 28, 2007

Single Life

I just come to realization that there is nothing wrong with being single. Now don't get me wrong Yes I would Love to be in a serious Relationship, if its in my future I would Love to get married and all that good stuff but Right Now its just a little more complicated. No one said that Life would be easy and Relationships comes with its Ups and Downs.
Thats why a lot of people today chose to be single because they don't want to go through the Drama of being Hurt again. Some people today been in really hurtful Relationships and would rather not deal with such pain. Some people are more Happy Single because they've been through the Drama of Relationships and don't want to go there again. Others are willing to work things out despite their Ups and Downs.

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Read Only if You Have Time for God

One day Satan and Jesus were having a conversation. Satan had just departed from the Garden of Eden, and he was gloating and boasting. "Yes, sir, I just caught a World full of people down there. I set me a trap and used a little bait. I knew they couldn't resist. Got 'em all!" "What are you going to do with them?" Jesus asked. Satan replied, "Oh, I'm gonna have fun! I'm gonna teach them how to marry and divorce each other, how to hate and abuse each other, how to drink and smoke and curse. I'm gonna teach them how to invent guns and bombs and kill each other. I'm really gonna have fun!" "And what will you do when you get done with them?" Jesus asked. "Oh, I'll kill 'em," Satan glared proudly. "How much do you want for them?" Jesus asked "Oh, you don't want those people. They ain't no good. See, you'll take them and they'll just hate you. They'll spit on you, curse you then kill you. You don't want those people!!" "How much?" He asked again. Satan looked at Jesus and sneered, "All your blood, tears, and your life." Jesus said without hesitation, "DONE!" Then He paid the price. - Isn't it funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the World's going to Hell? - Isn't it funny how someone can say "I believe in God" but still follow Satan? - Isn't it funny how you can repost a thousand jokes through bulletins and they spread like god, but when you start sending bulletins regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing? - Isn't it funny how I can be more worried about what other people think of me than what God thinks of me. - I pray, for everyone who reposts this, they will be blessed by God in a way special for them - And send it back to the person who sent it, to let them know that indeed it was sent out to many more. - If You Love God... And, are not ashamed of all the marvelous things HE has done for you... ~Repost this as ~"Read only if you have time for God"~ This is so true. We all are so into ourselves and what others want we forget why we are here and what we are supposed to be doing. I love God with all my heart and then some. I am not perfect not even close, but through Jesus Christ I can be. He loves you for who you are he made you the way YOU are for a REASON! Don't hate yourself. If you hate yourself how can you truly love God and your friends, and family, or anyone. You have to love yourself to love others. Live for Christ and he will provide you with what you need not want (although he does that too) you just have to put him first in EVERYTHING!!!!!!!

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Beautiful

by: Belinda Richmond

Beautiful is what I Feel Inside
Beautiful is Something I Cannot Hide
Beautiful is the Way that I Feel
Inside and Out this Beauty is Real.

Beautiful is a Vision that I See
Beautiful Just so Happens to be Me
Beauty is Skin Deep and I know
Your Beauty is Expressed by
Your Beautiful Glow.

Dove



by: Belinda Richmond


I Am Free to Fly Like a Dove
In the Heavens so High Up Above
As I Spread My Wings and Fly
I Feel that I could Touch the Sky.


A Free Dove that Spreads Her Wings
And Experience Life’s Beautiful Things
As She Spreads her Wings from End to End
She Knows that her Journey has just Begun.


Although She has a Long way to Go
She’ll Keep On Searching that’s When She’ll Know
Her Journey through the Pathway of Life
She will NOT give in without putting up a Fight.


I Am Free to Fly Like a Dove
In the Heavens so High Up Above
This is a Start of a New Beginning
This Journey is Far from seeing an Ending

Your Trifling Ways have made me Strong

by: Belinda Richmond

Your Trifling Ways have made me Strong
You put me through Hell, You Have done me wrong
I have dealt with your mess and this is True
Everything you have done to me will come back to You.

Your Trifling Ways have made me Strong
You Lied and you Cheated and now I’m Gone.
There is No more You and No more Me
As the saying goes “There are Fish in the Sea!

Your Trifling Ways have made me Strong
I knew this Relationship would not last Long
The Day we hooked up I thought you were the One
But you Played and you Laid you were just having Fun.

You Trifling Ways have made me Strong
Your Acting like a Child you need to run Along
You want someone to Baby you and hold your Hand
You need to Grow Up and “Be a REAL Man!”

Saturday, June 30, 2007

A Fresh New Start

I Have had thoughts of moving on with my life and pursuing my dreams for a while. Now I have been unemployed and sitting on my rear end for quite some time now, however another Door was opened for me. If I can't get employment in California then why not somewhere else like in Fort Worth, Texas or even St. Louis, Missouri? These are the two states I am thinking of moving to in order to get my foot through a Door and Start off on my own. I Have already Researched both States and know all about them, For One I have Relatives in both States and they are willing to help me out until I am able to hold my own, and two I have already applied to several Job positions in both the areas. So I just need to make a decision on which state I want to move to.If I want to move to Fort Worth, Texas or to St. Louis Missouri? Well I will hopefully make a decision before this Year is over with. It's time for me to venture out and see the world. It's time to see the World has in store for me, I would be surprised at what I can discover and learn on my own, it might not be easy but I must admit it's time for me to face the Real World.

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Opened and Closed Doors

We need to learn to thank the Lord for closed doors just as much as we
do for open doors. The reason God closes doors
is because He has not prepared anything over there for us.
If he didn't close the wrong door we would never find our way to the
right door. Even when we don't realize it, God directs our paths
through the closing and opening of doors. When one door closes, it
forces us to change our course. Another door closes; it forces us to
change our course yet again.
Then finally, we find the open door and walk right into His best for us.
But instead of praising God for the closed door (which kept us out of
trouble), we get upset because it took "God so long" and
we "judge by the appearances." And in our
own arrogance, or ignorance, we insist that we know what is right.
We have a very present help in the time of need who is always standing
guard. Because He walks ahead of us, He can see trouble down the road
and HE sets up road blocks and detours accordingly. But through
our lack of wisdom we try to tear down the roadblocks or push aside the
detour signs. Then the minute we get into trouble, we start crying "Lord
how could this happen to me?"
We have got to realize that the closed door was a blessing. Didn't He
say that "No good thing will He withhold from them that walk upright?"
If you get terminated from your job - don't be down, instead thank God
for the new opportunities that will manifest themselves - it might be a
better job, or an opportunity to go to school. If that man or woman
won't return your call - it might not be them, it might be the Lord
setting up a roadblock (just let it go).
One time a person had a bank he had been doing business with for many
years tell him "NO" for a $10,000 loan. The Lord led him to call another
bank. That bank approved a $40,000 loan for him at a lower interest rate
than his own bank had advertised.
I'm so grateful, for the many times God has closed doors to me, just to
open them in the most unexpected places. "The steps of a good man are
ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way." (Psalms 37:23) The
mountain top is glorious, but it is in the Valley that we grow!

Always Remember God gives you...
Enough Happiness to keep you Sweet
Enough Trials to keep you Strong
Enough Sorrows to keep you Human
Enough Hope to keep you Happy
Enough Failure to keep you Humble
Enough Success to keep you Eager
Enough Friends to give you Comfort
Enough Wealth to meet your Needs
Enough Enthusiasm to make you look forward
Enough Faith to banish depression, and
Enough Determination to make each day a better day than the last.
Life must be lived forward but can only be understood backwards.
Commit to the Lord in whatever you do and your plans will succeed.
(Proverbs 16:3)

Author unknown

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Private Parts

An old man, Mr. Wallace, was living the last of hislife in a Nursing home. One day he appeared to bevery sad and depressed.Nurse Tracy asked if there was anything wrong."Yes, Nurse Tracy," said Mr. Wallace, "My privatepart died today, and I am very sad."Knowing her patients were forgetful and sometimes alittle crazy, she replied, "Oh, I'm so sorry, Mr.Wallace, please accept my condolences."The following day, Mr. Wallace was walking down thehall with his private part hanging out his pajamas,when he met Nurse Tracy."Mr. Wallace," she said, "You shouldn't be walkingdown the hall like that. Please put your privatepart back inside your pajamas.""But, Nurse Tracy," replied Mr. Wallace, "I told youyesterday that my private part died.""Yes, you did tell me that, but why is it hangingout of your pajamas?"(You're gonna love this...)"Well, he replied, "Today's the viewing."

Monday, June 11, 2007

My Weekend

Well my weekend was pretty dull, nothing exciting happened, Friday was Laundry Day and then Saturday and Sunday were sort of slow which is ok. On today which would be Monday 11, 2007 of June I was planning on going down to my shcool to take care of some business, however I got stuck babysitting (Details Later) but anyways here I am home on a gloomy day which brings me to the Phrase "June Gloom" Ever since the beginning of June it has been Gloomy except on Saturday it was a Absolutely Beautiful Day!! The sun was out, the Sky was Blue and The Clouds were Fluffy White. On Sunday we had Children's Day at Church which turned out Really Nice. Other then that this concludes my Weekend I'll admit though It wasn't too bad. Two more events to happen in the month of June would be Father's Day, and Summer Begins in this month.

Friday, May 18, 2007

"Bored Out of my DAMN Mind Literally!!"

You just don't know the impact that boredom does to me, I need to get out and Get a life, however with No money there not much that I can really do!!. I could go somewhere and see something that I might want or want to go do and then find out that it costs in order to do it. But there are some things that does not involve money, The Park, The Library, The Beach, etc. So therefore there is still hope. On the fact that I am bored I find things to do regardless even if its just to go outside fro some fresh air. Times are changing now and things are starting to get more complicated. It doesn't bother me though I just learn how to deal with it. I call friends on the phone but their either at work or out in the streets. But its ok I will survive.

Wednesday, May 2, 2007

People Today!!

You Know I just don't Understand people today and their mood swings, well not exactly a mood swing but just how they act. One minute their talking to you and then the next their avoiding you. What is the deal with People and their Attitudes? One minute you think their your friend and then the next you don't hear from them. When you try to get in touch with them they never reply to you. "I just don't understand that!!" Maybe their just too busy or don't have the time, since when do people don't have the time to a friend or at least say hi how is life treating you? I guess it just how things are these days.